The Power of Words
I learned many years ago about the power of words. Words can influence people either positively or negatively.
For instance, when we hear someone swear using words we consider profanity, what is our reaction to that person? Unless you also use profanity, the reaction will invariably be negative. You may be in an enjoyable conversation with a new acquaintance when all of a sudden they let loose with a few expletives. These words hit you like a small thump in the abdomen. All of a sudden your breathing is tight as you brace yourself for what may be next.
Ask yourself, has that person raised or lowered himself in your estimation of him? Invariably among the vast majority of people the answer is lower.
On the other hand, consider that you meet a teenager for the first time. She speaks using "Yes, Maam" and "No, Sir". She says please and thank you in the conversation. Again, you may be shocked but this time because her speech is so polite and courteous. You walk away with a high opinion of that young lady.
So, for today think about the language you use. Is it as clean, uplifting, and powerful as it could be? In the future I'll share some specific words and why you should incorporate them into your everyday language.
For instance, when we hear someone swear using words we consider profanity, what is our reaction to that person? Unless you also use profanity, the reaction will invariably be negative. You may be in an enjoyable conversation with a new acquaintance when all of a sudden they let loose with a few expletives. These words hit you like a small thump in the abdomen. All of a sudden your breathing is tight as you brace yourself for what may be next.
Ask yourself, has that person raised or lowered himself in your estimation of him? Invariably among the vast majority of people the answer is lower.
On the other hand, consider that you meet a teenager for the first time. She speaks using "Yes, Maam" and "No, Sir". She says please and thank you in the conversation. Again, you may be shocked but this time because her speech is so polite and courteous. You walk away with a high opinion of that young lady.
So, for today think about the language you use. Is it as clean, uplifting, and powerful as it could be? In the future I'll share some specific words and why you should incorporate them into your everyday language.


Comments